Tuesday, December 11, 2007
when you are attracted to a person of opposite sex. your body start to experience some physiological changes; sweaty palms, unpredictable fluctuating heart beat, unrythmatic breathing, butterfly in stomach, etc.
after dates, when you walk away, you kind of sense that he/she is looking at you, adoring how gracefully you walk away. then, you look back to confirm, you smiled and blushed a bit.
for dates, you get very nervous. wondering what to wear, what to say, how to smile, just everything.
and sometimes, she/he doesn't have to say anything to flatter you. she/he can just look into your eyes, grasp you hand so tight so warm. it feels like two pulses communicating to each other.
it is really something when you are next to him/her and you can actually feel their heart beat rising and rising... and rising... and at the same time you feel your heartbeat doing the same thing. and somehow two heart beats just synchronise beautifully
furthermore, that one special person foreseens the best qualities in you that you don't even have a clue that you would have it.
that person foreseens how beautifully you will blossom eventhough you thought that you would never reach that point.
that person also gives you a sense of security; of yourself, of each other, future.
that person keeps you on track when you are lost. provides you guidence regardless how knowledgeable you are. who always believes and have faith in you.
that person would never lie to you and dares to tell how horrible you look when you wear clashed-colour outfit for example.
the person you fight with, the person you fight for.
that person would cry when you cry, laugh when you laugh, smile when you make him/her proud. gives endless emotional, physical, mental support.
you knew that person is the one for you when;
1. you feel your heartbeats, you think of theirs
2. you feel warmth, you think of their touch
3. you close your eyes, they immediately appear infront of you, and when that happens, you don't ever want to open your eyes. because if you do they will vanish.
4. everything you see, it reminds you of that special someone.
5. that person never gives up on you, work things out together in this relationship, it takes two to make it work.
6. he/she wants to grow old with you
7. you miss them, you feel warm inside.
8. they came across your mind between tasks, you smiled.
9. that person sits in the corner with his friends for example. his heart whispered, "isn't she lovely? let me be a part of her life Allah. i can't stop thinking about her". and when you are finally together he told you how he felt when he first layed eyes on you.
10. he prayed for happiness together, long before you knew he has feelings for you.
...heart to heart...
Dariah; 1:42 AM